Can't Afford It...

How often do you hear someone say that? "Oh, sorry, I'd love to, but I can't afford it" or "That's a cheaper version for the people who can't afford the other one". I've been thinking a lot about consumerism and my tendency to spend to much and that phrase came up in my mind. I think often we're embarassed to tell people we "can't afford" to go do something because it sounds like we have no money. Like finances define a person? When you really think about it, isn't that kind of odd? Aren't we commanded from God to be humble, generous and giving? In fact, Matt Chandler just did a sermon a few weeks ago on Acts 2:42-47 which is about people in the early church selling their posessions to help others. Not just give what extra they have left, but selling their stuff! So why then, is it embarassing to say we can't afford something?

I just decided that I don't like that phrase. I'd rather say, "I'd love to, but I'd just rather pay off debt, give money to others, put it in savings." I think our society instead has a ridiculous pressure to either give in and spend money we shouldn't, or face the shame of telling someone we don't have enough money.

Anyway, that's my two cents worth. I don't know if my ramblings make sense to anyone but me, but it's been bothering me lately! I guess I really should just dump my pride, not care what anyone else thinks of my "financial situation", and just tell everyone, "Awww, I'd love to, but I can't afford it..."